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Be kind to yourself. Stop telling yourself that whatever you are struggling with “should” be easy. If something is hard for you, it is hard for you. There are probably Reasons, though those may just be how you are wired. Acknowledge these things. When you finish something hard, be proud! Celebrate a little.
And really, just stop saying “should” to yourself about your thoughts and feelings in any context. You feel how you feel. The things in your head are the things in your head. You can’t change either directly through sheer force of will. You can only change what you do. Stop beating yourself up for who and what you are right now–it isn’t productive. Focus on moving forward."
if i’m ever rich i’m gonna always leave huge tips, like 200%. that’s like the dream. having enough money to give some waitress 40 bucks extra just because she’s nice.
A brief summary of my day:
1. Found out a major state-wide organization outright plagiarized my work and is getting credit for “innovation” and “best practices” for it on the national level.
2. Visited my old work and found out the staffing completely fell apart shortly after I left (it was seriously unravelling when I was working there.) Admin has stopped giving references for anyone who quit within the last 6 months as a result. Notified no one.
3. I can’t find a fucking optometrist who is willing to deal with me having Visual Processing Disorder.
4. Annnnnnnnnd two of my neighbors were murdered in their own home last night.
All in all shitty day.
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